A few ways to share your stories online

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As children, all we wanted was to grow up. Everything seemed so much fun. You can drive a car, sleep as late as you want, play on the computer for as many hours you felt the need, and eat a pile of candy with no repercussions.


Becoming an adult, for the most part, starts gradually. First, you learn to prepare meals for yourself, do the laundry, clean your room because you decide it’s too messy, not because your mom yelled at you again. You know, the small stuff. Then comes moving on your own and paying rent and bills.

Soon enough, you notice that eating as much candy you want takes a toll on your body, and staying up all night playing video games doesn’t work if you have to be at the office by nine a.m.

I got pretty bummed out when I first become aware that adult life is not all rainbows after all: “Is this what life should be? Is this how my parents live every day? I want to be a kid again!”

Be careful what you wish for—it might just come true.


In the end, most of us adapt to this change and eventually accept that we can’t do everything we want in life all the time, every time.

That doesn’t mean that we still can’t do more of the things we like.

Your passions and hobbies can still be a part of your day to day life, making it even more fun than expected. Maybe not the same type of fun you sought as a kid, but the fun that fulfills you as an adult because now you have a different approach on what rewarding is all about.

You’re living in the digital world, and exploring your passions is easier than it ever was. If you want to learn more about playing the guitar, there are countless YouTube videos that you can watch whenever you feel like it. Heck, if you want to combine outdoor activity with the satisfaction of a well-pressed shirt, you can go for Extreme Ironing (it’s a real thing).

The sky’s the limit. Literally.

And for some of you, adult life could be about inspiring others.

Maybe you want to share your eating habits or your fashion sense. Whatever the case, there are many ways you can showcase your talents in the digital realm. And this is what this article is all about. Showing you all the ways you can channel and showcase your creativity in the digital world and help you make the best out of the adult life we all craved so deeply.


Expressing yourself through writing

It’s never been easier to tell your story through writing. But finding where and how exactly you can start doing it is a bit more complicated. Don’t worry, that’s why I’m here for.

Let’s dive into the best places to go if you want to write:

Writing on Facebook

The easiest way to write content is to post an update, just like any other. You can see it as a place to practice and get feedback from your friends.

If you want to go a bit fancier, you can post Facebook Notes to give your thoughts a blog-like feel. To do that, you can go to https://www.facebook.com/YOUR-USERNAME/notes (replace with your own username) and click “Add Note.”

From there, you can add a header picture, title, and write the text. You can also insert images and embedded content (like Youtube videos, Soundcloud audio, etc.). The benefit of choosing Facebook is that you already have bigger chances to gather an audience quite easily since many people are already there, so why not make the most of it?

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UPDATE: Facebook has discontinued their notes feature on the 31st of October 2020, which further proves some of the things I’m pointing out later in the article. Keep reading.

Using LinkedIn

This is also a great way, especially if you want to write about business-related topics. You can treat it just like an archive or articles, and all you have to do is click on “Write an article.” That simple.

Bill Gates constantly writes on LinkedIn and has an audience of over 17 mil followers. No one says your biggest passion can’t also be something you do at work, not to mention the fact that people who work in the same field as you are always looking for knowledge and inspiration. I know I do.

Creating your own website

As you might have noticed, all the social media channels trying to get people into writing have some downsides, such as privacy. Once you publish there, you let the control go, which means that your content is gone all of a sudden, or people need to pay to see it because of the crowded landscape, and it’s getting hard to access it.

So why not bypass the system altogether and create a website from the start?


Here’s why writing on your website is the best:

#1 — No constraints

Having a website allows you to post different types of content, alternate between images, videos, text, color variations, you name it, with no hustle, giving your story a one-of-a-kind look. This way, people can truly understand your personality, and you can tell your story in a way that represents you.

Steve Chapman, maker of canscorpionssmoke.com, TEDx speaker, and customer of ours says:

The blog was my way of writ­ing stuff and see­ing what peo­ple thought of it and it evolved from there. As I look back at some of the ear­ly posts it seems like a dif­fer­ent per­son has writ­ten them. This is great as it shows me that the blog has been a very impor­tant and help­ful way of hon­ing my writ­ing and influ­enc­ing what I am inter­est­ed in.” (source)

#2 — Community building

With your own place where you can freely express, you can attract like-minded people around you, becoming their source of inspiration. Besides, your audience will help you improve your work by providing feedback and reactions to what you write, offering you a deeper understanding of what works or not.

Daniel, our customer who runs the food blog dicedandspiced.com says:

“I think we real­ly do know our audi­ence, in no small part because they’re very like us. Like us, they are peo­ple of dif­fer­ing lev­els of expe­ri­ence in the kitchen. Some of them (like us) want to know how to sub­sti­tute meat or ani­mal prod­ucts in their favourite dish­es. Some of them (like us) are par­ents who want to find new ways of get­ting their kids to eat their veg­gies.” (read his story)

#3 — Increasing authority

Having a great following is a big validation that you are doing things right and that others believe in your work. Your website can act as a resume on nitrous.

Soon enough, you’ll see doors open, collaboration opportunities, and recognition in the niche you are active. It will start to grab the right kind of attention from the right type of people who will be more prone to buy your products, services, or act as ambassadors.

Ana, the owner of thesheapproach.com, shares hers two cents on this one:

”I guess I start­ed putting a price on my strate­gies (while still deliv­er­ing free con­tent in the same time) when I real­ized that what I’ve learned and expe­ri­enced with grow­ing my own website was not com­mon knowl­edge, but valu­able infor­ma­tion that was (and is) worth pay­ing for.” (read the interview)

#4 — Total control

Social media channels are known for changing the way you can do things by limiting your organic reach or removing features all together—as Facebook did with their notes feature. Having total control over your content is essential, and a website can give you that.


How can you actually start a website?

Google-ing “How to start a new website” gets you about 21 million results. Not even kidding. But to summarize it, you need to:

#1 —Figure out  the topics you want to tackle and what are your goals

Are you passionate about fashion and what to share your insights? Do you like to cook and want to get your recipes out in the world? Or maybe you like building things on your own and getting your hand glued together while doing it (or is it just me?).

People need to come to your website knowing what to expect.

At the same time, you need to set your priorities straight regarding the outcomes. If you want to make money of it, you need to consider selling products or services, creating brand deals, ambassadorship programs, or displaying ads on your website.

You can’t expect to make a living out of your website if you’re not making the necessary steps towards that goal.

#2 — Select a site-creation platform

One of the main things to keep in mind when choosing a website-creation platform is who has control over what I’m sharing.

What does this mean? If you want to be in total control over your content and express yourself however you want, you need a platform that doesn’t have many constraints.

Squarespace, Wix, Shopify all have constraints that you should consider right from the start. Some are related to money, others to customer support or features. WordPress, on the other hand, is a reliable and growing CMS (content management system) that powers more than 40% of the Internet. That means that 40+% of the websites in the digital playground are made on WordPress.

There are plenty of perks if you choose to use this CMS, but two come to the surface easily: on the one hand, it’s the powerful community that keeps WordPress up and kicking, making it better one step at a time; on the other hand, it’s the flexibility and the ownership of the entire ecosystem which gives you plenty of freedom to mix-and-match elements to create an outstanding website for your business, passion, obsession, you name it.


No matter what you want to share with the world, the best thing is to start doing it. As Daniel, one of our beloved customers puts it, your first post “doesn’t need to be all things to all peo­ple, and after over­com­ing the hur­dle of mak­ing the first article, it will be a lot eas­i­er to make the sec­ond, and third, and so on.”

Think about how you want to show yourself to the world, be it through writing, photography, or video, and just start. Once you’re out there, the wheels start turning.

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